"Women who love too much"

Reading the book...

"The choice is yours. ... you can change from a woman who loves someone else so much it hurts into a woman who loves herself enough to stop the pain."

i wish it were that easy...

"It is true for all of us that when an emotionally painful event occurs,
and we tell ourselves it is our fault, we are actually saying that we have control of it:
if we change, the pain will stop. This dynamic is behind much of the self blame in women
who love too much. By blaming ourselves, we hold on to the hope that we will be able to
figure out what we are doing wrong and correct it, thereby controlling the situation
and stopping the pain."


i'm not this kind of women ...
i can't be
i don't want to be...

i am not going to love again with so much of me cause i'm not going to lose
myself
again...
no more pain.